I had never imagined that I would become a Toilet Activist! It was in March 2007 that I had my epiphany to build toilets in Punjab, India. However it is important to note that once I had committed I started experiencing a series of recollections from my past years that just reaffirmed why I was being led down this path. Today, I continue to see signs of "toilet messages" call them coincidences or synchronicity but there are far too many to ignore. Read on and enjoy!
My Historical Recollection and Phobia Of The Lack of Toilet Accessibility.
1970's
Summer school vacation periods involved working the farms i.e. strawberry, potato, green beans and apple fields with my mother in the UK for extra cash. This was my first introduction to no toilet accessibility amongst fellow fruit and vegetable pickers.
1977
During my first trip to India at the age of 13, I remember how awful it was to not have the luxury of a toilet when I stayed at my aunt's house in Athouli Pind. I remember my mother had packed sanitary towels for me the size of a baby diaper (now that I remember, I believe they actually were diapers/nappy's as we called them in the UK!).
I was mortified when my cousin's told me that I had to go to toilet in the sugar cane fields. And off I trotted, with my toilet paper in hand, spending a good few minutes determining the "best location" before I did my call of nature! Not a nice experience, especially as I had to hide the toilet paper amongst the leafs as no one used paper in the fields and they would know it was me!
August 1987
During a trip to India in 1987 with my sister's I recall Kuldeep my sister and her sister-in-law Kamal urgently needed to go for a "pee". The options available were that we either turn back home to my aunt's house where we were visiting or pee in the sugar cane field on route. The sugar cane field option was the easiest, until the local dogs decided to chase them out of the field, which I must say was one of the many hilarious moments we have experienced in India!
April 2004
Attended a Government supported Canada/India Trade Mission on how to do business in India. During this trip I remember distinctly how I would plan my entire daily activities to ensure that I would have access to a toilet facility, especially in Punjab!
March 2007
When I was first inspired to build toilets in India (review Punjab Lioness History below for detailed explanation!)
April 2007
I was planning to attend a United Nations conference in Toronto on how to do business with the UN and did a web search on United Nations, the first article that was displayed was Sanitation Needs in India, and why girls in Grade 8 stop attending school because of the lack of toilets in schools. I resonated with this article as I could not imagine any young girl not having access to a toilet facility in a school, especially during a menstrual cycle, it is unthinkable, how females are expected to cope in those situations.
May 2007
Searching the web on the topic of toilets in India and came across a web site Sulabh International, a non-profit organization that has been dedicated to providing millions of less fortunate families with toilets in India. Also realized that in November 2007 India was hosting the World Toilet Summit in Delhi, India.
June 2007
I recalled several years ago my son was having a conversation and had asked his aunt Rashpal "What's a Lioness", I remember because a big joke was made at the fact that he did not know at his age! At the same time my son had turned around to his cousin and in rebuttal had asked "what's a urinal"!
July 2007
Realized that there was an organization called the World Toilet Organization headquartered in Singapore. The annual World Toilet Day is on November 19th, one day after my mother passing away.
August 2007
The World Toilet Organization web site featured world maps of countries supporting the initiative. Ironically the Canadian flag did not appear to be shown. Why?
September 2007
I was frantically searching for some documentation in a file folder in my home office and came across a file containing a black and white hand etched drawing that my son Amardeep had created in grade 9. I liked it so much that I had filed it away without remembering 7 years ago. I found it recently and it depicts a Lion - the picture is shown below!
September 11, 2007
Woke up this morning and decided to do a "Google I Feel Lucky Search" for Punjab Lioness. I discovered that all names have a special meaning in Sikhism. Parents choose the best name according to their wish. A child is normally named in the spirit what the parents want the child to be. Singh means Lion and Kaur means Lioness! Tegh Bahadur means, brave swordsman, Amar Singh means, Eternal Lion, Diljit Kaur means, Heart winning lioness and so on. The relevance is that I am of Sikh culture and my son is named Amar, he was the one that created the drawing of the Lion below.
October 22nd, 2007
I contacted Jack Sim, the Founder of the World Toilet Organization to determine if any organization was actively involved in Canada with his organization. He advised me that a movie producer Ari Grief in Toronto was producing a movie on "Toilets" and that he was contemplating starting the Canadian Toilet Organization (CTO) and that we should sync up our activities.
November 1st, 2007
I was travelling back from San Francisco with a business associate and decided to pick up a book from the airport bookstore. I was intrigued by the title of a book called Beyond Coincidence - Amazing Stories of Coincidence and the Mystery Behind Them by Martin Plimmer and Brian King. I randomley opened up the book on page 196 entitled "Toilet Talk" with a topic on the long controversy amongst scholars and drunkards about the orgin of the word "crap" and that although Thomas Crapper ran a successful sanitary ware business in England he did NOT invent the lavatory! Need I say more, I chuckled and purchased it as it was another friendly reminder!
November 17th, 2007
I had a phone conversation with Ari Grief (producer of FLUSH toilet documentary movie) and advised him that I had done some research on him and was intrigued by the fact that he had family linage to Louis Mayer one of the co-founders and head of Metro Goldwyn Mayer (MGM), in his family tree, only from the perspective that MGM's icon is a Lion! Ari eluded that he would give me one better, his name Ari in Hebrew meant Lion!
November 19th, 2007
As I drove to work today, a car drove by me on the highway with a number plate "Up Flush"!
November, 2007
Just realized I live at exit 299 off the highway signed African Lion Safari!
December 2007
When my mother passed away I found two UK 10 pence coins in our study on the table. My son Amar claimed he had found them in a purse I did not often use and put them there. I had placed them on our fireplace mantle and forgotten them. One early morning in December, I was sitting drinking my morning tea, and got up instantly went directly to the fireplace and picked up the coins. I flipped them over and realized that the back of the coins had lion emblems!
2008 - The Lion Keeps Appearing or should I say Roaring!
- Noticed I have a Celestial Seasonings Tea fridge magnet with a Lion sipping a cup of tea and the quote - "What is strength without a double share of wisdom?"
- My neighbor asks if I have started advertising on the back of trucks as he saw a sign that read "In Loving Memory Mandeep" and a large Lion's Head!
- My son started a job at the Royal Bank of Canada and as you may be aware their logo is a lion's head. Anyway he mentioned to me that the first day of his employment, a training package was given to him which read "Amardeep SanSher"! Sher in Indian means Lion!
- The Guelph Museum have an exhibit "Sitting Pretty" about the history of toilets in Canada and I noticed there was a roll of old toilet paper packaged with a Lions head as the logo!
- I was watching a famous people cribs program (actually my son had the TV on and I was watching!) and it was Sir Richard Branson. Well when the show stopped the camera zoomed out and there half butt naked was Sir Richard Branson looking out towards the ocean on a composting toilet!
- Jan 2009 - Met with a local Government agency to discuss how the Canadian Toilet Organization may help in keeping toilets out of landfill sites. I was sent the address and when I searched Google Maps, the building is next to Lyons Park!
- Feb 2, 2009 - This has to be the best one so far! I have used W H Murray's quote quite often and part of the couplet by Goethe "Whatever You Can Do Or Dream You Can, Begin It. Boldness Has Genius, Power and Magic In It!". Well I was researching historical facts and the research led me back to W H Murray and a page that mentions he wrote one of his books in prison on the back and front side of
Toilet Paper!- March 2009 - WOW, just watched
SlumDog Millionaire, and there again the Toilet scene near the opening of the movie. The child jumps into the "poop" in the Mumbai river and runs to get an autograph by famous Indian actor Amitabh Bachan. Someone also told me that Danny Boyle has an affinity to Toilet Scenes. Here's a quote from an interview: "he discusses a particularly jovial scene from the movie involving the young protagonist and an outhouse crap bucket." “It’s a British film, you see, so you’ve got to have a toilet scene. No other nation on the planet is so obsessed with toilets like the British are.”
- April 2009 - Researching Alexander Graham Bell the inventor of the telephone and realized he too was researching
composting toilets!